As is clear from the poem and from the experience of many patients and
physicians, any death is personal, the final voyage taken by the self. Whether
accompanied by an accepting and loving family or by interventionist and
neutral resuscitators, it remains the slipping of the soul into a vortex
experienced by most individuals only once, and rarely told to another. It is the sound
of one hand clapping. There is much to commend a death that is sudden. To the
individual dying it is a moment of… shock? terror? regret?… and then nothing—or
eternity. But to those left behind it represents the cruelest loss: that for which there
has been no preparation. Central to the mystique of sudden death is its untimely
occurrence. After all, a sudden end to a debilitating, painful illness is likely kind, and
sometimes sought...
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